Found this at penofjen
Gee....guess I'm showing off huh?
I actually had a discussion about en vitro fertilization with a familiy member saying I am against it...she said "That's because you got pregnant so easily.."
Oh Gee, I guess the 2 years we tried/waited/begged (and started the adoption process) before Sonshine doesn't count now that I've got three huh?
Here's what gets me.
Why do people think they can control birth/death? Truly these are 2 things that are entirely in God's hands. Don't believe me? Think about it. How many people have you heard "should have died" but didn't? How many "went all the way through infertility treatments, had en vitro fail, then spontaneously got pregnant"??? Now I hear people telling me how many children they "want" and I just laugh. You will have however many children God gives you. No more, no less. It's not that I don't believe in birth control...Subvet's the Catholic, not me....it's that I don't believe birth control changes anything. I've known too many folks have babies a) while on the pill b) after having tubal ligation c) after vasectomy d) after proper use of condoms...etc etc....
Oh well, we and our 3 kids are going to show off for the world I guess. Just trying to make sure the "white" race doesn't die out. :-)
Funny thing, Subvet has found that when you go places with 1 in the stroller and 2 by the hand people actually hold doors for you and give you sympathetic looks! (Take all the perks you can!)